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Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Couple's Healings

Well, guys!  I have a new passion:  Couple's Healings. (Don't worry.  I'm still doing individual healings too.)  Here's how it works:  If you choose to do one of these, you and your mate do not come to the office the way you would for an individual healing.  Instead, you each call in from separate locations.  And each of you calls me on a different phone number.  I have my headsets to my landline in one ear and my cell phone headset in the other ear.  I can hear both of you, but you can't hear each other.  The reason for this set-up is so that each person feels safe enough spew out what is bothering them without the other person chiming in, interrupting or disagreeing, which is why most people stop communicating in the first place.  If one person won't quit talking out of turn, i simply set down that headset until it's their turn.
     I start by opening with a prayer to ask our Guides to be with each of us.  I ask the Guides to open our crown chakras for clarity.  I pray that they center us and ground us and help us to leave our busy lives behind to focus on the session.  Then, i ask the Guides who they want me to start with.  Let's say our couple's names are Fred and Martha.  And let's say i am guided to begin with Martha.  Fred can hear me as i ask Martha what topic she would like to bring up.  I ask her to talk about something that upset her in their relationship this week.  She goes off, complaining and ranting about what a jerk Fred was.  Fred can't hear any of this.  Then, i help Martha rewrite the experience as if Fred was the perfect mate in her eyes.  This rewrite is what i tell Fred.  I don't tell him what Martha says is wrong with him.  I tell him what, in her mind, the ideal husband would've done instead of what he actually did in real life.  Fred may have two reactions.  One may be:  "Wow.  Good to know.  I had no idea that that's what she wanted me to do."  And Fred may also go into a rage that goes something like this: "That is not what i said!  Let me tell you what she did!"  Martha hears none of this.  All Martha hears is me guiding Fred until he has a rewrite of the controversial situation and behavior.  That's what i relay to Martha.  Martha might say, "Ok.  That sounds like a good solution."  Or she might blow up and begin defending herself and attacking him.  Fred hears none of this.  The reason for my method is so that we don't waste the whole hour arguing, the way that you may have spent months or years arguing.  Instead, we spend our energy creating what we want our relationships to be like.
     At the end, i ask the Guides to clear out all of the energetic patterns of misunderstanding.  Then, i weave the new threads of communication between you that we created in the session.  I may connect your heart chakras or your soul light, depending on what is needed.
     To schedule one of these, just call Elizabeth at the office, 303 377 1688, and tell her you want to book a Couple's Healing.  She will assign a different phone number to each of you and take credit card info for payment since you won't be coming in person.  Couple's Healings take the normal hour for the same healing fee of $150.
     Who's brave enough to try it?  Whether you want to stay together, separate, divorce, or go your separate paths, let us vow to have harmony between us, to communicate easily, and to understand each other as we choose our directions.  Who's in?!

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