Time to Go!

Let's talk about when to move on from someone you are dating. Many of you spend countless hours trying to figure the other person out or understand what you are doing wrong. Some of you begin working on your own issues through therapy or through endless discussions with your friends. That's great to do your emotional work, but not with the intention of trying to make it work. This is dating, not marriage. If you don't feel good around this person, that's all the information you need. It's time to move on. It doesn't matter how great they are or why they act the way they act. And yes, it's true that you have your own issues and aren't perfect. But, this is not a time to ignore your guidance system with psychoanalysis. If you don't feel beautiful, centered, smart, successful, and whole around this person, that's not something you need to work on! That's your chakra system giving you feedback and guidance. We ignore it all the time and keep trying to make thing work instead of saying, “This feels terrible. i don’t know why.  But it’s time to go!”